A widow had to wear hideous black dresses without even a touch of braid to enliven them， no flower or ribbon or lace or even jewelry， except onyx mourning brooches or necklaces made from the deceased's hair. And the black crêpe veil on her bonnet had to reach to her knees， and only after three years of widowhood could it be shortened to shoulder length.Widows could never chatter vivaciously or laugh aloud.Even when they smiled， it must be a sad， tragic smile.And， most dreadful of all， they could in no way indicate an interest in the company of gentlemen.And should a gentleman be so ill bred as to indicate an interest in her， she must freeze him with a dignified but well-chosen reference to her dead husband.Oh， yes， thought Scarlett， drearily， some widows do remarry eventually， when they are old and stringy.Though Heaven knows how they manage it， with their neighbors watching.And then it's generally to some desperate old widower with a large plantation and a dozen children.
Marriage was bad enough， but to be widowed—oh， then life was over forever！How stupid people were when they talked about what a comfort little Wade Hampton must be to her， now that Charles was gone. How stupid of them to say that now she had something to live for！Everyone talked about how sweet it was that she had this posthumous token of her love and she naturally did not disabuse their minds.But that thought was farthest from her mind.She had very little interest in Wade and sometimes it was difficult to remember that he was actually hers.
Every morning she woke up and for a drowsy moment she was Scarlett O'Hara again and the sun was bright in the magnolia outside her window and the mockers were singing and the sweet smell of frying bacon was stealing to her nostrils. She was carefree and young again.Then she heard the fretful hungry wail and always—always there was a startled moment when she thought：“Why， there's a baby in the house！”Then she remembered that it was her baby.It was all very bewildering.
And Ashley！Oh， most of all Ashley！For the first time in her life， she hated Tara， hated the long red road that led down the hill to the river， hated the red fields with springing green cotton. Every foot of ground， every tree andbrook， every lane and bridle path reminded her of him.He belonged to another woman and he had gone to the war， but his ghost still haunted the roads in the twilight， still smiled at her from drowsy gray eyes in the shadows of the porch.She never heard the sound of hooves coming up the river road from Twelve Oaks that for a sweet moment she did not think—Ashley！
She hated Twelve Oaks now and once she had loved it. She hated it but she was drawn there， so she could hear John Wilkes and the girls talk about him—hear them read his letters from Virginia.They hurt her but she had to hear them.She disliked the stiff-necked India and the foolish prattling Honey and knew they disliked her equally， but she could not stay away from them.And every time she came home from Twelve Oaks， she lay down on her bed morosely and refused to get up for supper.
It was this refusal of food that worried Ellen and Mammy more than anything else. Mammy brought up tempting trays， insinuating that now she was a widow she might eat as much as she pleased， but Scarlett had no appetite.
When Dr. Fontaine told Ellen gravely that heartbreak frequently led to a decline and women pined away into the grave， Ellen went white， for that fear was what she had carried in her heart.
“Isn't there anything to be done， Doctor？”
“A change of scene will be the best thing in the world for her，”said the doctor， only too anxious to be rid of an unsatisfactory patient.