`His mother is an old, unbroken wolf.' And then she experienced a keen paroxyism, a transport, as if she had made some incredible discovery, known to nobody else on earth.A strange transport took possession of her, all her veins were in a paroxysm of violent sensation.`Good God!' she exclaimed to herself, `what is this?' And then, a moment after, she was saying assuredly, `I shall know more of that man.' She was tortured with desire to see him again, a nostalgia, a necessity to see him again, to make sure it was not all a mistake, that she was not deluding herself, that she really felt this strange and overwhelming sensation on his account, this knowledge of him in her essence, this powerful apprehension of him.`Am I really singled out for him in some way, is there really some pale gold, arctic light that envelopes only us two?' she asked herself.And she could not believe it, she remained in a muse, scarcely conscious of what was going on around.
The bridesmaids were here, and yet the bridegroom had not come.Ursula wondered if something was amiss, and if the wedding would yet all go wrong.
She felt troubled, as if it rested upon her.The chief bridesmaids had arrived.Ursula watched them come up the steps.One of them she knew, a tall, slow, reluctant woman with a weight of fair hair and a pale, long face.This was Hermione Roddice, a friend of the Criches.Now she came along, with her head held up, balancing an enormous flat hat of pale yellow velvet, on which were streaks of ostrich feathers, natural and grey.She drifted forward as if scarcely conscious, her long blanched face lifted up, not to see the world.She was rich.She wore a dress of silky, frail velvet, of pale yellow colour, and she carried a lot of small rose-coloured cyclamens.Her shoes and stockings were of brownish grey, like the feathers on her hat, her hair was heavy, she drifted along with a peculiar fixity of the hips, a strange unwilling motion.She was impressive, in her lovely pale-yellow and brownish-rose, yet macabre, something repulsive.People were silent when she passed, impressed, roused, wanting to jeer, yet for some reason silenced.Her long, pale face, that she carried lifted up, somewhat in the Rossetti fashion, seemed almost drugged, as if a strange mass of thoughts coiled in the darkness within her, and she was never allowed to escape.
Ursula watched her with fascination.She knew her a little.She was the most remarkable woman in the Midlands.Her father was a Derbyshire Baronet of the old school, she was a woman of the new school, full of intellectuality, and heavy, nerve-worn with consciousness.She was passionately interested in reform, her soul was given up to the public cause.But she was a man's woman, it was the manly world that held her.
She had various intimacies of mind and soul with various men of capacity.
Ursula knew, among these men, only Rupert Birkin, who was one of the school-inspectors of the county.But Gudrun had met others, in London.Moving with her artist friends in different kinds of society, Gudrun had already come to know a good many people of repute and standing.She had met Hermione twice, but they did not take to each other.It would be queer to meet again down here in the Midlands, where their social standing was so diverse, after they had known each other on terms of equality in the houses of sundry acquaintances in town.For Gudrun had been a social success, and had her friends among the slack aristocracy that keeps touch with the arts.
Hermione knew herself to be well-dressed; she knew herself to be the social equal, if not far the superior, of anyone she was likely to meet in Willey Green.She knew she was accepted in the world of culture and of intellect.She was a Kulturtrager, a medium for the culture of ideas.With all that was highest, whether in society or in thought or in public action, or even in art, she was at one, she moved among the foremost, at home with them.No one could put her down, no one could make mock of her, because she stood among the first, and those that were against her were below her, either in rank, or in wealth, or in high association of thought and progress and understanding.So, she was invulnerable.All her life, she had sought to make herself invulnerable, unassailable, beyond reach of the world's judgment.
And yet her soul was tortured, exposed.Even walking up the path to the church, confident as she was that in every respect she stood beyond all vulgar judgment, knowing perfectly that her appearance was complete and perfect, according to the first standards, yet she suffered a torture, under her confidence and her pride, feeling herself exposed to wounds and to mockery and to despite.She always felt vulnerable, vulnerable, there was always a secret chink in her armour.She did not know herself what it was.It was a lack of robust self, she had no natural sufficiency, there was a terrible void, a lack, a deficiency of being within her.
And she wanted someone to close up this deficiency, to close it up for ever.She craved for Rupert Birkin.When he was there, she felt complete, she was sufficient, whole.For the rest of time she was established on the sand, built over a chasm, and, in spite of all her vanity and securities, any common maid-servant of positive, robust temper could fling her down this bottomless pit of insufficiency, by the slightest movement of jeering or contempt.And all the while the pensive, tortured woman piled up her own defences of aesthetic knowledge, and culture, and world-visions, and disinterestedness.Yet she could never stop up the terrible gap of insufficiency.